Success
is more than financial independence, titles, and/or degrees. Planning for success is about
mapping out all the aspects of your life. Similar to a map, you need to define
the following details: origin, destination, vehicle, backpack, landmarks, and
route.
Origin: Who you are
A
map has a starting point. Your origin is who you are right now. Most people
when asked to introduce themselves would say, “Hi, I’m Jean and I am a 17-year
old, senior high school student.” It does not tell you about who Jean is; it
only tells you her present preoccupation. To gain insights about yourself, you
need to look closely at your beliefs, values, and principles aside from your
economic, professional, cultural, and civil status. Moreover, you can also
reflect on your experiences to give you insights on your good and not-so-good
traits, skills, knowledge, strengths, and weaknesses. Upon introspection, Jean
realized that she was highly motivated, generous, service-oriented, but
impatient. Her inclination was in the biological-medical field. Furthermore,
she believed that life must serve a purpose, and that wars were destructive to
human dignity.
Destination: A vision of who you want to be
“Who
do want to be?” this is your vision. Now it is important that you know yourself
so that you would have a clearer idea of who you want to be; and the things you
want to change whether they are attitudes, habits, or points of view. If you
hardly know yourself, then your vision and targets for the future would also be
unclear. Your destination should cover all the aspects of your being: the
physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual. Continuing Jean’s story,
after she defined her beliefs, values, and principles in life, she decided that
she wanted to have a life dedicated in serving her fellowmen.
Vehicle: Your Mission
A
vehicle is the means by which you can reach your destination. It can be
analogized to your mission or vocation in life. To a great extent, your mission
would depend on what you know about yourself. Bases on Jean’s self-assessment,
she decided that she was suited to become a doctor, and that she wanted to
become one. Her chosen vocation was a medical doctor. Describing her
vision-mission fully: it was to live a life dedicated to serving her fellowmen
as a doctor in conflict-areas.
Travel Bag: Your knowledge, skills, and attitude
Food,
drinks, medicines, and other traveling necessities are contained in a bag.
Applying this concept to your life map, you also bring with you certain
knowledge, skills, and attitudes. These determine your competence and help you
in attaining your vision. Given such, there is a need for you to assess what
knowledge, skills, and attitudes you have at present and what you need to gain
along the way. This two-fold assessment will give you insights on your
landmarks or measures of success. Jean realized that she needed to gain
professional knowledge and skills on medicine so that she could become a
doctor. She knew that she was a bit impatient with people so she realized that
this was something she wanted to change.
Landmarks and Route: S.M.A.R.T. objectives
Landmarks
confirm if you are on the right track while the route determines the travel
time. Thus, in planning out your life, you also need to have landmarks and a
route. These landmarks are your measures of success. These measures must be
specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and time bound. Thus you cannot
set two major landmarks such as earning a master’s degree and a doctorate
degree within a period of three years, since the minimum number of years to
complete a master’s degree is two years. Going back to Jean as an example, she
identified the following landmarks in her life map: completing a bachelor’s
degree in biology by the age of 21; completing medicine by the age of 27;
earning her specialization in infectious diseases by the age of 30; getting
deployed in local public hospitals of their town by the age of 32; and serving
as doctor in war-torn areas by the age of 35.
Anticipate Turns, Detours, and Potholes
The
purpose of your life map is to minimize hasty and spur-of-the-moment decisions
that can make you lose your way. But oftentimes our plans are modified along
the way due to some inconveniences, delays, and other situations beyond our
control. Like in any path, there are turns, detours, and potholes thus; we must
anticipate them and adjust accordingly.
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