I had a hard childhood. One fraught with lack of self-love, security, and emotional support--plus we moved around a lot. By the time I graduated from high school, I'd moved 18 different times. Twice we moved three times in one year.
My mother got married and divorced six times. And the men she picked weren't the loving kind. They were brutal, physically and emotionally. What I learned from all of that is a treasure that I hold close to my heart even today, as I watch my own grandchildren grow.
I made mistakes along the way and didn't find true love--didn't find my soul mate until I was 43. And yes, I found him using the law of attraction. I admit to a law of attraction love match. It's a match made in heaven.
What I learned through all of my pain and emotional growth was that I needed to love myself first. I learned that every relationship we have, be they the ones from work, play, our communities or our private lives--all of these relationships reflect back to us the love we give ourselves. They will tell you or not whether you are loving yourself first.
While this may seem selfish, it is imperative if you are going to be a partner to someone else. If you don't love yourself first, how can you love another? When you are in a relationship, you will find that the way that person "loves you" is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself.
It really is that simple.
All relationships are mirrors of our own self love.
So how do we attract love? By loving ourselves first.
And believe it or not, this can be an incredibly challenging endeavor for most people. They have no clue where to begin. And it is not an uncommon problem. I find it everywhere I go.
One of the biggest problems in the world today is a lack of self-love. Once you learn to love yourself, you have the ability to be compassionate and caring toward others. Until you love yourself first, you don't really have the capacity for compassion. If the lack of self-love is at the core of your life that will be reflected back to you in every thing that you do.
How can you honestly love another without loving yourself first? It's not possible, regardless of what the advertisements say.
That's why people struggle for the best house, the best clothes, the best car, the best body--because there's something missing on the inside. Having all of those material things are great--but if you're seeking them to fill the hole inside, you'll find that hole is like a black hole that will continually consume everything around you. It affects and warps the energy field of everything in your life.
There's only one thing that fills the black hole within and it is self love. There's no magic pill you can take that can fix it, but if you pay attention, apply your consciousness and start to love yourself first, watch out, because things will start happening in your life. You'll experience a forward momentum and soon find yourself with your own law of attraction love match.
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